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Boulder Consultation Launches New Narcissism Page That Reframes a Misunderstood Term
Boulder Consultation has launched a new page on narcissism that reframes a widely misunderstood term. Rather than treating narcissism as

We All Need Narcissistic Supply – And That’s Not a Bad Thing
My doctoral dissertation focused on narcissistic supply, and these days I notice that current psychology emphasizes the negative attributes of

Boulder Consultation Launches New Anxiety Page for High-Performing Professionals
BOULDER, Colo. — Boulder Consultation has launched a new anxiety page built for the high-performing professionals the practice serves. It

What Is Psychoanalysis? A Clear Definition and Why It Works
Psychoanalysis is a method for understanding and treating the unconscious patterns that drive behavior, relationships, and emotional suffering. I am

EXECUTIVE BURNOUT: What’s Really Happening
As a highly successful C-Suite executive, you have more money and status than ever. You have a beautiful wife, a

You’ve Optimized Everything — Except the Part You Can’t See
For those interested, Boulder Consultation offers AI Assist to access emotional, relational, and realistic insights. By analyzing your adaptable programming

Your Inherited Code is There to Explore
Your mind runs on inherited code — but you can rewrite it! As a psychoanalyst (relations analyst), my focus isn’t

Our Brain’s DMN (Default Mode Network) & a New Psychoanalysis
The Default Mode Network is our neural programming — not in the rigid sense of fixed commands, but in the

Understanding Relationship Patterns: A Psychoanalytic Lens for Physicians and Providers
Psychoanalytic methods offer powerful means to understand relationship patterns and help individuals recognize unconscious dynamics that influence their interactions. For

On Fatherhood
Fatherhood is often an under-appreciated role. Fathers are responsible for so very much and carry enormous weight, holding many things

Disillusioned with the Current State of Heathcare?
Many physicians, clinicians, providers are experiencing fewer returns for all they contribute (years of education, effort, finances, time) to their

What Causes Relationship Dysfunction?
At its core, relationship dysfunction stems from a deficit of narcissistic supply — defined by Fenichel in 1938 as “a

