I work with couples navigating all kinds of relationship issues including infidelity. We start by uncovering, discovering what has made for this breach. Once we understand the underlying patterning, and what each person contributed, we can talk honestly about this breach.

Then we need to come to terms with what recovery entails: Complete cessation of the affair. Radical transparency from the betraying partner. Thoroughly understanding what happened so the same conditions don’t resurface. Grief for what was lost. And skilled analytic work to get you through.

Not everyone wants to work through and remain together. And analysis can help with all that is required for dissolution as well.

However, when both partners commit to working this through – the affair event can become a turning point. It does have the potential to offer to a deeper intimacy and a love that’s chosen again with full knowledge.

Sessions are 45 to 60 minutes, most often weekly. Affair recovery typically requires a longer commitment than other work. Available by phone, Zoom, or in-person from anywhere in the US. Everything is completely private. No chart notes, no paper trail. Nothing leaves the room.