Successful people develop mastery in their field because they relentlessly wrestle difficult problems to the ground.
Yet at home, problem-solving seems elusive.
Why is that? Partly, they weren’t trained to solve ‘at home’ problems. Partly, they didn’t get the right equipment.
As a species, we thrive when we feel understood and cared about, i.e., when we feel recognized, acknowledged, and appreciated.
When you get these good feelings — when your partner ‘gets you’ in this way — you relax, feel comforted, and ‘known.’
As you problem-solve and understand what’s prevented you from being recognized, you will access Your Self, Your Partner, Your Children in more meaningful, more pleasurable ways.
This work carves out the means to feel seen, understood, and cared about.
Why not be successful at work and at home? If anyone can do this, you can – !
