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You’ve Optimized Everything — Except the Part You Can’t See
For those interested, Boulder Consultation offers AI Assist to access emotional, relational, and realistic insights. By analyzing your adaptable programming
Your Inherited Code is There to Explore
Your mind runs on inherited code — but you can rewrite it! As a psychoanalyst (relations analyst), my focus isn’t
Our Brain’s DMN (Default Mode Network) & a New Psychoanalysis
The Default Mode Network is our neural programming — not in the rigid sense of fixed commands, but in the
Understanding Relationship Patterns: A Psychoanalytic Lens for Physicians and Providers
Psychoanalytic methods offer powerful means to understand relationship patterns and help individuals recognize unconscious dynamics that influence their interactions. For
On Fatherhood
Fatherhood is often an under-appreciated role. Fathers are responsible for so very much and carry enormous weight, holding many things
Disillusioned with the Current State of Heathcare?
Many physicians, clinicians, providers are experiencing fewer returns for all they contribute (years of education, effort, finances, time) to their
What Causes Relationship Dysfunction?
At its core, relationship dysfunction stems from a deficit of narcissistic supply — defined by Fenichel in 1938 as “a
Why Brilliant People Struggle in Relationships – CEOs, Engineers, Doctors, Scientists
Your brain is trained to solve complex problems. But what happens when it’s a relationship issue? I’ve found that executives,
High Achievement Comes At a Price
Top executives, engineers, scientists, doctors, IT leaders are masters of logic, strategy, and execution. Yet, at home they often struggle
High-Achieving at Work — Lonely at Home?
Successful people develop mastery in their field because they relentlessly wrestle difficult problems to the ground. Yet at home, problem-solving
Holiday Realm is Upon Us
During family/friend gatherings during the holidays — wishes, expectations, and obligations abound. And here, we are informed front-and-center how our
