At its core, relationship dysfunction stems from a deficit of narcissistic supply — defined by Fenichel in 1938 as “a type of admiration, interpersonal support drawn by an individual from their environment, essential to their self-esteem.” Narcissistic supply isn’t about vanity—it’s about the fundamental need to feel noticed, valued, and connected.
It’s difficult—if not impossible—to care for yourself emotionally if you haven’t experienced enough emotional care. Without that foundation, relationships often become a search for validation, leading to patterns of disconnection, depression, anxiety, burnout.
The primary function of Relational Analysis is to restore narcissistic supply —providing the experience of being deeply seen, valued, understood, and cared about. When you internalize that experience, truly own it, you naturally extend it to others, and connections are made easily — indicating neuronal pathways in your brain are rewired.
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Why Brilliant People Struggle in Relationships – CEOs, Engineers, Doctors, Scientists
Your brain is trained to solve complex problems. But what happens when it’s a relationship issue? I’ve found that executives, engineers, doctors, and scientists who excel in their fields often find personal relationships — frustrating and unpredictable. Common struggles
